Break free from limiting beliefs to reach your full potential!
It is important to break the rules at times. Rules can drastically limit your potential in life, preventing you from exploring emotions and trying new things.
Think about the negative things you tell yourself on a daily basis, such as “My parents/teachers said I couldn’t do that.” Each of these negative thoughts is derived from rules and societal expectations, which need to be broken down in order for people to truly find happiness or success.
The people who told me I couldn’t do something were wrong. They said it wasn’t possible, but they didn’t know what would happen next.
Sometimes, it can seem like there’s no point in sticking up for yourself, but standing by and letting someone disrespect you or others is demeaning to not only your self-worth but also the other person. Speak out when necessary!
Some people might not like what you have to say, but that doesn’t mean you should let them silence your voice. Speak up and defend yourself, your beliefs, or your person! The benefits of speaking out include feeling proud and brave while facing adversity from those who are trying to put others down.
You may have experienced one or several painful experiences in your past, which have impacted your psyche and are still keeping you from moving forward with power and a purpose in life. But don’t worry! There is a way out of that dark place!
It’s difficult to admit when a negative experience has taken over your life, but don’t let it define you. Take action to break free from these mental chains (and the rules that have held you back) and move on successfully with your life! The empowerment of taking this leap will do wonders for how empowered you feel, so start today by breaking those old rules holding you back with an act of defiance.
You are the protagonist in your own story and you can choose to be the hero. You know that through self-reflection, though it may not have been fair what happened to you or how others treated you; but there’s still a way forward for better things.
You’ve had plenty of time now as an adult with some perspective on life’s ups and downs — don’t let yourself get stuck blaming all these challenges for who they made me into without also realizing I am more than this bad experience has shaped my identity around some circumstances.
Optimism is essential in life because everything would feel like a drag without it. Trusting yourself to do the right thing and finding joy in breaking rules will help you get out of your comfort zone (which has been holding you back from what’s next). Comparing yourself with others can lead to cynicism about other people’s lives as well as yours; don’t let that happen!
If you want your life to have meaning, don’t let someone else tell you what it should be. Don’t listen when they say that something is too risky or not worth the risk. Be a guide for yourself and always make decisions with risks in mind – but never forget about rewards either as well!
“You are the protagonist in your own story and you can choose to be the hero.” Yes! That is the path I am on, Paul. Thanks for the encouragement.
You are very welcome, Jeanine!
The last paragraph says it all Paul. Our motto when we had our business was “If you want to explore deeper oceans, you have to leave sight of the shore.” We would always tell our children the same thing, don’t let someone else put you down and say it can’t be done.
Amen, Martha! There is another saying, something like, “Ships are safe in harbors, but that is not what ships are for.” Kudos to you!
I like that. We may not even have to “break the rules”, because WHOSE RULES ARE THEY ANYWAY? With our life experience and values we may create our own rules.
Yup – it is fine to break/change our rules – especially the ones that we create! I do not remember getting permission to create these rules, so why would I need to get permission to change them?
Paul, this was such a powerful reminder that breaking the old rules is sometimes the most honest act of self-love. Your words speak to the courage it takes to trust yourself and rise above limiting beliefs. Thank you for this inspiring reflection.
Old Rules/Beliefs should be reviewed every so often to see if they still apply! Some of our old thoughts may not serve us today.
Thanks, Jasmine!
This post was written for me! This is something I’ve struggled with my whole life. I’ve internalized every time someone has said you can’t, and every negative comment.
Over the last 10 years I’ve been trying to break free of that, but it’s a daily struggle.
Thank you for these encouraging words.
I will have to add that – “This post was written for Barbara!” 🙂
I lived in a world with rules. My parents lived in Germany during WWll. There were plenty of rules back then, and they passed them down to me. However, I was the rule breaker. My dad wasn’t happy about that. But, it was my life, and I lived it how I saw fit. Certain rules can be broken. Go for it!
That is the way to embrace things, Eydie! You go girl!
Thanks for these words, Paul. I have to believe that everything is possible.
Hi Lily –
Your comment reminds me of the saying, “Nothing is impossible – the word itself says, I’m Possible.”
Thanks!