The Giver Should Be Thankful

When you give someone a gift, are you filled with gratitude? Do you expect to get something in return, even if it is a ‘Thank You’? Here is a wonderful story that describes this thought.

The Giver Should Be Thankful

gratitude-golden-coinsWhile Seietsu was the master of Engaku in Kamakura he required larger quarters, since those in which he was teaching were overcrowded. Umeza Seibei a merchant of Edo, decided to donate five hundred pieces of gold called ryo toward the construction of a more commodious school. This money he brought to the teacher.

Seisetsu said: “All right. I will take it.”

Umezu gave Seisetsu the sack of gold, but he was dissatisfied with the attitude of the teacher. One might live a whole year on three ryo, and the merchant had not even been thanked for five hundred.

“In that sack are five hundred ryo,” hinted Umeza.

“You told me that before,” replied Seisetsu.

“Even if I am a wealthy merchant, five hundred ryo is a lot of money,” said Umezu.

“Do you want me to thank you for it?” asked Seisetsi.

“You ought to,” replied Umeza.

“Why should I?” inquired Seisetsu. “The giver should be thankful.”

When you give someone a gift, you should give it without strings attached. What he or she does with it should be no concern of yours. You should feel gratitude for their acceptance of your gift.

Be Well.
The Gratitude Guru


  1. Marty Pardue on October 28, 2010 at 6:30 am

    Hits home!

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