A Teacher Attends A Funeral
Based on a true story and written by Sister Helen Mrosla, a Franciscan nun, this beautiful piece perfectly demonstrates how one human can make a huge difference — whether they know it or not.
A Teacher Attends A Funeral
One day, a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name. Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.
It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.
That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.
On Monday, she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling.
“Really?” she heard whispered. “I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!” and, “I didn’t know others liked me so much,” were most of the comments.
No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class with their parents, but it didn’t matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.
Several years later, one of the students was killed in combat and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student.
She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature. The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.
As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. “Were you Mark’s math teacher?” he asked. She nodded, “Yes.” Then he said, “Mark talked about you a lot.”
After the funeral, most of Mark’s former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark’s mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher. “We want to show you something,” his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket. “They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it.”
Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded, and refolded many times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark’s classmates had said about him. “Thank you so much for doing that,” Mark’s mother said. “As you can see, Mark treasured it.”
All of Mark’s former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, “I still have my list. It’s in the top drawer of my desk at home.”
Jack’s wife said, “Jack asked me to put his in our wedding album.”
“I have mine, too,” Marilyn said. “It’s in my diary.”
Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her purse and showed her frazzled list to the group. “I carry this with me at all times, ” Vicki said, and without batting an eyelash, she continued, “I think we all saved our lists.”
A simple action / excercise by a teacher made a HUGE impact on these people. Imageine what you can do for someone as well.
What a wonderful story, brought tears to my eyes.
Wish I could have had a Teacher like that and who
knows what I would have become…..
Don’t we all! It is a great story!
Beautiful story and something that could be applied to other situations, a very nice share!
Simple things that can be taken for granted can make the biggest impact! Thanks, Debbie!
What a beautiful story!