Have you ever asked yourself any of the following questions?
Am I behaving like a person my age should?
Am I where I should be at this point?
Are people laughing with me or at me?
Should I know what I am doing?
If these are some of the questions that you have been asking yourself lately, it may be time to take a look at the way that you thinking. Many of us want to feel like we have grown into decent and respectable people, but the truth is that some of us mature or grow faster than others. There comes a time when we must look within ourselves and decide if we need to go through an adjustment period. It may be a need to grow spiritually, personally, or financially. Maybe, it is more than one of these.
If you are looking to make a spiritual change then you may want to seek advice from friends, family, or a religious official. These are some of the people that will know you best and can better help you decide what steps to be
gin this process.
If feel the need for a personal change then you need to look at the things that you want to change. You may want to focus on your party habits, making new friends, or you may want to take a look on the inside and make some changes with your personality.
With the economy being the way that it is you may want to make a financial change. Some of the changes you can make are starting a savings or checking account, reducing debt, or begin to invest in a retirement account.
When deciding to make a change you have to remember that the decision is yours. You must be completely honest with yourself and also be committed. Remember that making a change is hard process for anyone and that at some point we all go through it.
Hang in there, and you can do it!